He has sacrificed parts of his career as well. I think she sounds great but she won't be able to not bring it up. We also live in a foreign country which is another element of difficulty. You should start raising CES letter issues with her and see how she handles it. This broke my heart. I have finally learned to pray to change my heart, not his.
It's all about timing, and you're in two different places. Posts from people who have your same problem occur on a regular basis here on RFM. From a guy's perspective, I was dating a doctor who was going through her final exams to become a registered specialist. Just talk to her honestly, and if you have to, use the old wonder of logic. My plan was to start school as soon as I got married but when he was told he would be going to another hospital, my masters got put on hold. It's been tough to always move and find a new job, friends etc I agree a support system is needed.
Mormon girls are the best, and you are pretty lucky. Sorry dude, she is in way to deep. We met after he finished his residency and started working as an ER director.
But now, we embrace our spiritual differences. Finally, the decision of whom you marry is really between you and God. Don't get her hopes up too much - in return ask her to do something to research your views. Find a good man first, one that you can trust and feel comfortable building a future with, and then worry about the profession later. There's a different kind of balance, but that doesn't mean that there's no balance. Don't expect this to be like the others. Also, love how you describe how God has our backs and we can actually act on the notion of things hoped for that are not seen instead of the quaint pseudo idea that all things are known in advance, step by step, and lead to mortal and eternal bliss. We have been married for nearly 28 years and yes I went to parents evening, open days, Christmas play, sports days alone Because of the long hours, it was hard for me to build a career outside the home, I have built one working from home, but was not easy as I do everything that has to do with our family life even when we go on holiday the only thing Dr know is where we are going.
