LDSdotOrg is mostly propaganda. He also wants to have kids soon since I am already The dilemma I have now is: I do not know how would our relationship shape up, after marriage, assuming everything goes fine. Like many single members of the church, I have often wondered whether I would be willing to marry someone outside of the temple, and over the past few years I have come to believe that I would be willing to do so.
Unfortunately I've been sort of seeing a girl who is basically a real deal Mormon. I've been the main parent for 30 years. Money is not everything although the ex certainly has her share. Please share your dating experience with a doctor or a medical resident.
No doubt that some will be valiant up on the other side of the veil, but just as sure there will others who will reject salvation because of their high mindedness. There's this fantasy perpetuated in the religion that if you're good and pure enough, that any man you meet would eventually see the truth and join the church for you. When I taught GD we discussd the lessons. If you have tended to straddle the line between light and dark in the past, or have been a partier, expect to make some changes for this relationship, and expect certain things from your new crush.
Alot of TBM women won't even consider dating non members. If you have dated a doctor or other abnormally busy person or are in the medical profession yourself that would be particularly helpful, but I'll gladly take any words of wisdom. The thing about General Authorities and General Conference, is that they give general counsel that is meant for the general population. I knew a couple in my last ward who got married in their mid 20's. Love does a lot.